Any one who knows my hubby knows that he is a music-junkie. He likes all kinds of music and goes to all kinds of concerts, sometimes just by himself, sometimes with his son, P. Sometimes with his mom, and sometimes with me. A lot of the concerts he goes to with P are Punk / Rock concerts and festivals. He crowds surfs, he stage dives, he moshes and he sings REALLY loudly and is right up front for every number.
Needless to say, the concerts that he and I go to are not usually those kind of concerts. We go to see Death Cab for Cutie, Wilco, Aimee Mann... where there is a slightly mellower crowd. We are still must be right up close to the action when possible, but there usually just a lot of swaying and singing along and cheering and the feeling of: Ahhh, this is a nice night out listening to music with my hubby.
Then two weeks ago, I had my first sweaty concert with the hubby.
Sweaty Concert was a term I coined after realizing that when C would come home from some concerts, he would be bruised, bloodied, sunburn, clothes ripped or lost, and he would be so stinky and sweaty (even AFTER driving home!) that I would not let him touch me until he was showered and had started the laundry. So now, whenever he mentions to me he is thinking of going to a show and would I like to go, my first question is: Is it a sweaty concert? If the answer is yes, I tell him why don't you take P?
However, when he asked me if I'd like to go with him to see Frank Turner at the TLA in Philly, I was interested. I LOVE Frank Turner. For many reasons. First of all, he's a punk singer/songwriter from England, he's adorable and witty and plays accoustic guitar (he admits not very well) but what he lacks in skill, he makes up for with passion. Did I mention he's British - such a lovely accent... If you haven't heard of him - please look him up!
So I was totally up for a Frank concert.
Will it be a sweaty concert? I asked.
I don't think so, C answered. He doesn't have a big following here.
So we went! We had a wonderful date night dinner out in Philly on South Street. I was facing the door, and after we ordered, I looked up and guess who walked in the door of the restaurant? Frank-Freaking Turner and his band!!!! I had a famous-person-flip-out moment as I choked out to C: Look, it's FRANK! He walked by our table, and cool as a cuccumber, C says very politely, Hey Frank, we're looking forward to the show later.
Frank smiled at us and said, That's brillant! (or words to that effect) and went on his way. I was dazzled.
We got to the concert and waited through 2 opening acts before Frank Took the stage. He started playing and all of a sudden I was moving. Literally picked up off my feet by the crowd around me and we all surged ahead to the stage, to FRANK! C held me tight, for a moment I scared I was going to fall, or be trampled or something, but it was great! We were right up front, maybe 3 people back from the stage, and we screamed every song and moshed and danced and C saved me from a crowd surfer landing on my head (good thing he is so tall!). It was a great, crazy date night!
And the best part was we were both so stinky and sweaty afterwards we could hold hands all the way home with out feeling icky!

-The Good Stepwitch